[00:10:33] Hello, everyone, and welcome back to an episode of Media Labs. I am Chronicles, and this is Chronicles of a Nation.
[00:10:41] So here we go. The old hag is in the room. The dreaded mystery. As you can see by the title, of course, the old adage itself when we think of the topic, what's the first thing that pops in your mind? Gleed. Knowing that you have caught the right one. Or you're bathed in the light of unfulfilled gloomy despair. But let's back up for a moment. If you're in that space, not all hope is lost. You know, I have found that sometimes we need to take a step back and think, am I the issue?
[00:11:13] Because surely you don't believe you're perfect. You're lost to the noise of your own head.
[00:11:19] So I can't help you. Neither can anyone else. It can be a challenge. It's a whole thing.
[00:11:26] Sometimes we feel the need to pray to the all seeing eye. Oh, please, please answer for me. What am I doing wrong? Grant me the strength. Blah, blah, blah.
[00:11:38] That's how it doesn't work. We can be met with great moments. We can be met with the disastrous consequences. The long attachment, the codependent motive that we have yet to realize. But how, one, do we come to that realization? And two, how did I find it? What did I do so wrong? How'd I get it so wrong? Let me give you a first hand look into where we should start with you. You feel like it's already leaving. The hand of time is on the door. You can't be sure anymore. And you just think too much.
[00:12:15] Does he really need me the way he says he does? Does he still love me?
[00:12:20] It works both ways. Just saying. So let's take it from there from that point forward. Yeah.
[00:12:26] The fast emotions. You butterfly hard crease this form at the corners of your mouth from the laughter that you give each other. Laughing at our own weirdness. Pins and needles on the edge, waiting for a phone call. If you're just texting, your relationship never had a chance to begin with. For us girls, it's hoping our hair didn't go flat. If you have taste, that is. For men, it's a little different. He's on a cloud. Be cool, be cool. Don't trip. She'll call. Big hype in the belly. You wanting so much to consume her. Just sayin'he'll. Wanna learn about every line on your body, every move it makes, what moves you finding his way through your mind. Guys. Good luck with that one. More complicated to say the least for girls it's different. It's. Will he get my little kind of crazy? Did I eat too much or did I eat like a little bird or something? Did I fidget? Damn, I needed him to kiss me like 15 minutes ago.
[00:13:30] Then there's the penis. God, please let him have the right package and know how to use it. I'm still not leaving that part out. Because it's real.
[00:13:39] Oh God. What if he like Mark Zuckerberg looks. That's how it all starts. Classic, isn't it? Some might even say dreamy. But then come all the work that we have to do. It gets quick and heavy.
[00:13:54] Bail now and save your emotions.
[00:13:57] All relations have issues, but it comes down to how you move forward. Each party has to come clean about what they were wanting from you. You can't be shy from it. It's a needed talk. And that's where your trouble comes from.
[00:14:11] When you don't lay it out, begin to plant those roots from John. I know, I know. What will he or she think of me when they may hear something they don't like? It could be my politics, my kink.
[00:14:24] Everyone has that too weird for me. Deal breaker. When we get exposed to those words, it's the beginning of our own exposure. Damn the exposure. What happens afterwards? It's left our lips.
[00:14:37] What does that look mean? Yeah, that's how it starts. But what about after we laid it all out? Relations are in full swing. And then something changes. We'll become more accustomed to one another. Love is a fickle thing. Because after butterflies, after the courting, life, the real deal.
[00:14:57] Strength of each other comes into view. And you can't see those strengths and weaknesses until life stretch begins.
[00:15:05] Money, possibility of kids now coming to view or are now in the picture.
[00:15:12] Family meetings, get togethers. Who doesn't like who? You have to smile.
[00:15:19] The avalanche of life is always with us.
[00:15:22] But when it's the two of you and your competence begins to show, or lack of breaking points begin. Personalities begin to change.
[00:15:32] Your issues show more than they ever had before.
[00:15:35] Someone begins to see codependency and that that love may no longer be present. That dependency is a two way street and not in a good way. Not an I'm single too kind a way. Don't judge. We all have it. Or the kink never lets us find our way out of it. Kink plays out better prior to looking for the love of your life. So get it out of your system first and then put it away. I'm just saying truth hurts. I know but so does breaking someone's heart with your secret black bag of kink.
[00:16:07] And don't act like you don't know what I'm talking about. You're thinking about your very kink right now, so be quiet and listen.
[00:16:14] It can sometimes fall on deaf ears, meaning your own, when we know it's time to examine yourself. Like not realizing everything is about you. And why are you so needy? Chicks, stop walking men around or waking them up and ask them if they're good enough.
[00:16:33] And for the love of God, pick any time of day for your it needs to be about me moment or mood. And guys, here's what that can really mean. We're into our emotions. Our need to hear you.
[00:16:46] Does that have a deeper connotation to its meaning? Yes, it does. But I'm not going into that right now. But at least she's not a stripper.
[00:16:55] Beth. Keep giving her the love, Jones. Her love is awake for you. And for whatever reason, it's in overdrive. Like when Guns N Roses November rain comes on and it takes you back to a memory or two. Well, if you have any taste, that is. I'm just saying.
[00:17:10] Then comes the breakup. There's the real you. There's the one you held in for far too long and now it wants to come out and play.
[00:17:19] How spiteful you really are.
[00:17:22] Some even go as far as to claim a man raped her and kept her drugs so she would stay.
[00:17:27] Don't trip on me. Facts are real and so is that scenario. Evil can lurk in the best of people. Or it's simply because of manifestation of time and chance. From one broken heart to another. Like J. Lo's seven Denied failed ego trips.
[00:17:42] Others be careful. The Swifty will write a song about you and the failure that you are. At least according to her. Men bad. Make coins off that man good. But men bad? Hey, I'm just a messenger.
[00:17:57] Oh, how the circle can go round and round for men. You don't get a reprieve here. Some of you run through dumb chicks one after another.
[00:18:06] Pill for that. I think you Wes Watson wannabes. How pathetic.
[00:18:11] Please, that was not a compliment.
[00:18:16] Surely your actions are suspect at the least. No love just smash, smash, smash. Do you even have an off button?
[00:18:24] I wonder. Mommy should have hugged you at least once. And I'm sure there's a wig and heels in your future somewhere.
[00:18:30] It's important that in our cell flies not only the anchors but a grain of crazy. If you don't play your hand properly, if you don't do the dirty work. Meaning look into yourself to get to the base of who you are. You will always, always take your baggage into the next life. Your vengeful nature because someone did you so poorly, with reckless disregard for the pile you would become, left you holding the bag and took zero responsibility. At least according to you. Your version. So it's always up to us to look at our own mistakes and our own makeup to see what plagues you and how did you get where you are? Put down the phone for five seconds. Live in the real world.
[00:19:12] Get into your head about who you are. Find yourself knowing is key. And men. Why do you need to smash every piece of pussy that you see? Why do girls think an OnlyFans account means I've made it? What exactly did you make it to?
[00:19:28] Exposing your booty hole to the world, Allowing foreigners to pay you to shit on you. What have you made it to exactly? A slow death to self restraint. Attempting to fend off the barrage of insults that you so richly deserve. Hey, you made your bed, so be able to defend it. A question if you like. I'm curious. Why do you crave so much attention in such a reckless way? Guys, this applies to you as well. If the only thing that can be remembered about you is your dick size. They're not really into you. You just can't give anything any better than sex. A true woman you can't approach because she is beyond reproach.
[00:20:09] And that is your kryptonite. I'm not talking about money.
[00:20:14] I'm talking about do you really believe you have what it takes to make and keep a woman happy that has no other interest in you other than loving you with all of her heart? So let me leave you with this love. You first. Know yourself first. Find peace in spending time with you without the company of others or a phone.
[00:20:37] Take a walk out in the woods. Jump into a pond somewhere by yourself.
[00:20:42] Let rain sprinkle upon your face.
[00:20:46] That kind of in touch have the desire to love. But first know what that love means. That journey is deep, but it's better with the love of a lifetime.
[00:20:57] I'm Chronicles and this is Media Labs.
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